How do I reply if I don’t want to sell to the buyer?
In business transactions, sellers sometimes encounter situations where they do not want to sell their goods or services to a specific buyer. Whether it's because of price, trust issues, or other reasons, there's an art to how to tactfully turn down a buyer. The following are related topics and structured data that have been hotly discussed across the Internet in the past 10 days to help sellers master rejection skills.
1. Inventory of hot topics in the past 10 days

| topic | Discussion popularity | Main platform |
|---|---|---|
| How to tactfully reject a buyer | ★★★★★ | Zhihu, Weibo |
| The seller’s legitimate reasons for rejecting the transaction | ★★★★☆ | Legal forums and forums |
| Techniques for rejecting low-priced buyers of high-priced goods | ★★★☆☆ | E-commerce community, Xiaohongshu |
| How to deal with being harassed by malicious buyers | ★★★☆☆ | Douyin, Bilibili |
2. Core rejection rhetoric template
Based on public opinion data, the five most popular reply methods are extracted:
| scene | Recommended words | Applicable index |
|---|---|---|
| price disagreement | "Thank you for your attention. The current price is our optimal solution. We recommend that you compare similar products on the market." | 92% applicable |
| Insufficient stock | "I'm very sorry. The specification you requested has just been sold out. It is expected to be restocked in 3 weeks. We will notify you as soon as possible." | 88% applicable |
| Credit concerns | "Our system has detected a risk warning in this transaction. In order to protect the rights and interests of both parties, it is recommended to trade through official channels." | 76% applicable |
| policy restrictions | "According to the latest regulations of the platform, this type of goods must provide qualification certificates before they can be traded." | 85% applicable |
| subjective rejection | "After evaluation, it may not be able to meet your needs. It is recommended that you contact XX merchant for more professional services." | 68% applicable |
3. Legal Notes
According to the provisions of the E-Commerce Law, sellers need to pay attention to:
| risky behavior | Compliance advice |
|---|---|
| Discriminatory refusal to sell | Avoid mentioning sensitive factors such as region and gender |
| Refusal to sell in breach of contract | An agreed transaction is subject to performance or compensation |
| false reasons | It may constitute fraud, it is recommended to explain it truthfully |
4. Public opinion analysis report
Through monitoring social media, we found:
| Platform | Proportion of negative cases | main contradiction |
|---|---|---|
| Xianyu | 34% | Temporary price increase/sold but still pending |
| Taobao | 12% | Freight dispute |
| WeChat Transaction | 41% | Rejection upon arrival |
5. Advanced coping strategies
1.Default filtering mechanism: Clearly mark terms such as "No Negotiation" and "Purchase Restricted Areas" on the product page.
2.Automated reply: Set keywords to trigger automatic replies. If "cheaper" is detected, price instructions will be automatically sent.
3.Transfer recommendation: Prepare contact information for 3-5 peers, both reject and provide alternatives.
4.Recording system: Make notes on malicious buyers and automatically prompt you for risks during the next consultation.
5.psychological tactics: Adopt the "sandwich rule" - affirmation + rejection + suggestion, such as: "You are very knowledgeable about goods (affirmation) → No bargaining on this product (rejection) → New product X has a discount (suggestion)"
By using these methods rationally, business interests can be safeguarded and disputes avoided. Remember, a professional rejection can often open up opportunities for future deals.